There are clues you could look for in your partner and no, not only is measured by how many times a day or a week do you make love. Some couples are uneasy about their sex lives and pay attention to things that are not really important.
Are you living in a healthy relationship?
Couples with a happy and healthy sex life do not put unrealistic or unlikely expectations on the other person, nor are they plaintiffs with the other party, they communicate as many times as necessary and do not need to raise their voices. They are even able to separate if something bothers them.
Is making love more than just a simple act?
It is totally the opposite of what most people believe, sex is more than doing sex.
Allowing yourself enough time to be in intimacy, is a somewhat lengthy duration and performing foreplay is part of enjoying a happy sexual life.
Experiment in the room
The experimentation and discoveries in the room is another signal to measure whether they are having a happy and healthy sexual life. Discovering and trying new things can improve your sex lives significantly.
Could you say that you have a happy sexual life?
The illustrations were made by a friend.
I hope you can take something of what I share here to improve or re-start having a happy sexual life.