Very true i agree with you on many points on this post charity should not always be about giving material things i say this not that its a bad thing but some of these people are not only in need of material health but rather emotional support they need to feel a sense of worth and appreciation from fellow human beings a feeling that helps them feel more human again despite the hardships this helps them feel better about them selves which gives them hope that there is more to life. thanks for such a great read.