Life will never be fair if you always compare it with others. Therefore, if you feel that your current life is not the same as the others, it is because your heart is not wise to realize God's provisions.
Because when you are clever to realize God's provisions wisely, surely the gap to compare your life with that of other people will not be easy for you to do.
do not get used to comparing the life you have with the life of others. Because when you compare of course what you know is just complaining and complaining, until finally you get worse and worse in God.
When you get worse and complain very much to God, then of course to blame His destiny will be easy for you to do. So that the pleasure you have felt so far will be difficult for you to appreciate wisely.
When you easily blame God, whatever God has set for you is difficult for you to be grateful for. And if you are difficult to give thanks, then surely all of God's gifts will never be enough.
And if gratitude is gone, of course, every provision of God can never be appreciated. Why? Because surely your heart has been filled with a sense of dissatisfaction, so that the nature of comparing is always inviting a sense of not being tried by Alllah.
So it is wise to keep your heart, do not let your heart constantly compare, otherwise you will find it hard to believe that God's provisions are the best.
And not only that, when you don't stop comparing, of course your life will never be calm.