Gratitude towards a good done to you is always wanted and expected even though the giver may appear not to want it.
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Receiver; thank you so much sir am grateful to what you have done to me sir, I will forever remain grateful
Giver; no don't worry, you shouldn't have come, why are you making it a big deal, don't mention go enjoy!
It appears in this dialogue above that the giver doesn't want to be appreciated, but the truth is, he needs that more than he sounds, his happy you have said it and he wants more appreciation.
Do not be too relaxed to say thank you when a certain good is done to you. At this point I wish to say thanks to the community for the votes. Thanks Hive account@wafrica, Hive account@theluvbug Hive account@steemjet Hive account@steemitcentral and more appreciation goes to those account that don't post nor comment, they just vote (support) thank you, those accounts always put me at the top with those heavy votes, not mentioning their names. They say appreciation is an indirect way of asking for more!
This is my opinion, I am open to comments, contributions and corrections.