In life there are feelings that are not always useful for us, because sometimes we wear rose-colored glasses that we really do not want to shoot. The reality is that these feelings can sometimes make us a puppet, which is very easy to control. Then if we lose something important, then we begin to blame everyone, except for ourselves. But no one is responsible for our feelings, except ourselves. So, there are 17 feelings that are at least worth controlling.
1. Feeling of faith in the ideal.
In the world there is nothing ideal. It's impossible. Everything can be done even better. Without the absence of an inaccessible landmark, there is no desire for excellence. Otherwise, degradation.
2. Feeling of loneliness.
This feeling is unproductive, therefore, it is laziness. Laziness is a lack of desire. Without desire you can only be lonely. This is a paradoxical feeling.
3. Sense of importance.
You're not important. The important thing is that you can be useful to others. And vice versa.
4. Feeling that you owe something to someone.
You are not obligated to anyone and from anything from your birth. Except yourself. It is a fact. It can not be disputed.
5. Feeling of expectation.
Do not wait for anyone and nothing, if it has not already happened. Look for new ways, other possibilities. Have a different plan. To wait is the lot of the lazy.
6. Feeling that you need something.
No one owes you anything. With this logic, you owe something to someone. And you do not owe anyone anything?
7. Feeling of despair.
Forget. Only euphoria. Only pleasure. Do what you want, not what you want, what you would do, others. There are no two identical life experiences. Experience is always unique.
8. Feeling of fear.
Fear and self-preservation are different things. As long as you're afraid, you're inactive. Inaction is laziness. Laziness is loneliness. Further you know.
9. Feeling that someone is right.
Until proven - all the lies.
10. Feeling of disability.
The person is trained. Everything and always. If it's not so, it's not a person.
11. Feeling that life is passing by.
Get fired.
12. A sense of responsibility.
It does not have to be a feeling. This should be a fact.
13. Feeling of resentment.
No offense. These are just people. Their job is failing you.
14. Feeling of shame.
If you did everything right, you should not be ashamed. If someone did something wrong - do not be offended. Shame, you just replace this feeling.
15. The feeling of love.
Be able to forget about it though sometimes. It distracts you from the really important. In this world there is no ideal. Remember?
16. Feeling of lack of choice.
There is no choice. If it is not so - do not choose.
17. Feeling panic.
Remember. We will still die. In the meantime, you're alive - get rid of all that is superfluous.