Someone saw how far the problem was in front of him until he could see that it was not really.
The problematic life is diverse and multilevel, and the human hearts as well as diverse and multilevel, some are strong bearing the burden, there are those who can be patient and others are steadfast.
Sometimes you have problems but others get out of trouble, so in order to be able to think and see clearly a problem, one looks far ahead to the end of the disaster, and sees what danger is most severe from the impact of the disaster, if a wife divorced by her husband then Allah Almighty has given Sustenance for him better than the first, if in dying by father or his mother, then this is a field of charity for the afterlife, should he feel happy and praise to Allah because even if late but still in telling the real problem, so on every problem in giving the actual portion do not to exaggerate it, as if if someone was in overwritten a disaster or world problem like doomsday that there is no way out again except waiting for Destruction.
The person with the problem looked at the problematic and past events of him in the past, how could he get out and sneak out of the problem? Of course he would know that the day always came and go, and he would forget all the calamities that had happened to him as if nothing had happened.
The anger usually conceals a healthy way of thinking and leads to a crooked and distorted way of thinking, which when both exist then he will master sentimental attitudes. It is therefore advisable to be calm (when angry), and to restrain in a good way without emotional uproar with the current situation, how much we can imitate a thoughtful woman, in the face of her husband's anger, which she faces in a way good and calm (not hooked with emotion), then soon her husband was back into his lap.
Some people have a good way of dealing with problems like this, some people are afraid that when there is hostility with their co-workers, or with their relatives or relatives, he chooses to do good to them before, by giving hadiyah to him, saying gently speaking with them to prevent their bad attitude, and before turning hostility into a physical quarrel, such as a gentle leader of his men, or a husband to his wife, or something else. And solutions like these are real and offer many benefits in minimizing hostilities and quarrels.
Hopefully useful.