When you look at your cute newborn baby, you can feel proud of your desire and hope for a wonderful future for them. Hope they grow up and deserve to be proud, successful, full of love, and can be friends in your life.
But sometimes what happens?
You can only wonder what exactly went wrong. You feel like you did your best, doing your best to raise them to be the youth you desire. But they don't become teenagers, but they become "Monster" with a big "M" letter.
What exactly is wrong?
As a good parent, you can rest assured that nothing is really wrong. At least you didn't make a mistake on purpose. But what happens now that your teenager is growing and changing, maybe this is what causes you to feel guilty. Suddenly you feel your teenager is a stranger.
If you see a stranger with a strange and different appearance, you definitely won't invite him to the house right? You will stay away from that person and be grateful you don't have to know them, let alone live with them. However - against your will - if it is your own child, you must face it and live with it.
What should you do?
You better be tolerant and try to understand their existence. And the most important thing is that you are able to have good and sincere communication and dialogue about various things, you must be able to be their confidant. If you impose your view of life on them, it is as if you are already clouding the situation.
You will suffer even more if you don't like your teenager, then become very anxious and hate yourself. Feeling that you are failing in education, you lose the charm of keeping the household the most comfortable place for them to visit, and then you feel disappointed with all that. You have to know, it's so bad ...!.
But the question is when your teenager becomes "Monster", maybe you will hate your own child?.
You have to reflect on what you have given them, what you have injected into their bodies, so that whenever they want, they will turn into vicious and ferocious monsters. In fact they overturned the rules that you gave, if you respond with hatred and emotion, it is like saying, "please leave this house".
Then you think that is the end of the problem you are facing? No, that is the beginning of a great catastrophe for you!. "You know?"
Hulk "became the Green Monster because of his father's experiment."
About Author:
I come from Aceh, Indonesia. I was born in October 1994. I am a trader in several Crypto markets, besides I am also a writer of fiction and poetry. Some of my writings are "Hantu Kojet, Rencong Terakhir", and a collection of poems "Sajak Kekasih". Besides that I am a community founder, such as; FOKUS and KOPI HITAM. This is a community that focuses on the education of minors. I am also part of the humanitarian community, namely BMU, KSL and several other communities. this is a community of young people who care about education and humanity.
I focus on charity and humanitarian work. I think I will take advantage of technological advances such as Blockchain and Cryptocurency to be able to help others. And this is my goal, because for me there is no single satisfaction eternal apart from the satisfaction of seeing the smiles of others because of us.
