I'm probably far too logical for my own good sometimes. I'm one of those who believes that we completely control who fall in love with. We choose who we allow ourselves to get close to and attached to. I want to know these kinds of things before I choose whether to allow myself to get attached to someone or not. If you know certain things are going to be deal breakers for you, or are going to actually be a big problem in the future, why wouldn't you just avoid bringing that drama and heart ache on yourself and focus on finding someone you're more compatible with?