"Decide how you want to feel.
You have to master how to not be controlled and triggered by everything outside of you.
You can't walk around with a button that can easily be pushed.
You can't be swayed left or right ever second by what others are saying and doing.
You have to learn how to direct your inner emotions and gain inner stability.
Be too great for negativity and anything that tries to test you.
Handle it gracefully and consciously.
You choose how you want to feel. You choose to be sad, happy, excited, up, and or down.
However, when people don't decide how they want to feel, they become reactors.
Reactors, tie their inner emotions to things, people, situations,
and or circumstances outside of themselves. They wait till "this" happens to be happy.
They can't be excited unless "that" happens.
Have you noticed, that when you're just happy for no reason,
people ask "what are you so happy about?"
It's like we just can't be in that state, without having a reason.
And for most people, if there is no reason to be happy,
they are either sad or depressed waiting for
something on the outside to shift their inner state".
life is so short may the best of emotions you experience with the happy thoughts always in your mind.
have a great day to all of you steemians.
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