Today is exactly two years by the Grace of God i tie knot with my lovely wife. As we celebrate our 2nd Anniversary in solemnization i would like to share some experiences with my friends here.
Marriage is like a Living room; and every living room is having these
- foundation
- wall
- window
- roof
- furniture
Each of them represent somethig in marriage.
Now let's examine them one after the other
Foundation of marriage
LOVE
Wall of marriage
TRUST
Window of marriage
ACCEPTANCE
The roof of marriage
FAITH
Furniture of marriage
BLESSING
Key notes in marriage
see every woman through your wife and on the other side see every man through your husband
Every marriage has it's own question paper
marriage is not great but is grace
'C' words that you have to do in marriage
communication:- a) to God
b) to your partnercompromise:- every marriage is a win-win affair
'C' words you should not do in marriage
- don't "complain"
- don't "compare"
- don't be "convertous"
- don't "cheat"
- don't "curse"
- don't "compete"
- don't "condemn"
Take note of these things before you marry and after the marriage ceremony
- don't use all your money for the marriage
- always think together to take decisions don't stick to yours alone.
- don't reflect on other party's past.
- fight it together when babies are not coming
- when babies come too raising them are two parties affair
- if possible allow your spouse to see your pay.
In conclusion help me thank God, our family, pastors, friends for the support. We pray for more Grace. God bless you all.