Four years back when I joined campus, I used to be a coward, a shy person, and no one wanted to associate with me. The reason was that I had never believed in myself since my childhood, and the new environment I found myself in.
Whatever I could do, no one could support me or even encouraged me.
Let me tell you friends, if you don't trust yourself, no one is going to trust you. So the first thing to do, is to trust yourself by changing the way you think about yourself, because if you keep thinking as a failure, you will always act as failure, but if you keep thinking as a winner, you will act as winner. That's what I did when I reached in my 2nd year at the university, I stopped calling myself these abusive names like mediocre, stupid, good in nothing, and I started calling myself names like blessed, winner, success.
And What you keep thinking about yourself to, that's what you become, because everything starts with the mind and then goes into action. If you keep thinking that you're poor just because you have no money at that time, you will remain poor, but if you keep thinking that you're rich, blessed, even if you are financially unstable at that moment, you will surely become rich.
So when I stopped thinking that way, I started acting the same way( as a winner man, success).
People who saw me before, thought maybe I was jocking, but for me I knew that if I wouldn't change, they would still be having that bad perception of me.
Now, as I'm talking to you, I am the happiest man in the world because I found my real character
. People want to associate with me after realizing that I've changed, even those I had never thought associating myself to.
No one can associate himself with a failure, or a coward, to make a deal.
If you want to be a great person that you're dreaming of, you have to learn to think positively about yourself. That's the only formular