Hasnat Sahib was standing under a shopping center in Uttara. Suddenly a 13-14 year old smart girl came forward and told Hasnat Sahib, Uncle I'm going to suicides.
Hasnat fell into the thought. What will he answer in this statement! Thinking a little, he said, made a very good decision, you will be killed a little later - let's keep a cell phone with you, then you can be given on Facebook. The girl got annoyed (pseudonym) on her, how are you people, I want to die and you want to take pictures with me!
At that time, the gentleman has known the name of a good, he is in class eight. He said, let's eat coffee, then do whatever you like.
What a tragedy thinks it went with. To eat coffee, it was known to be happy with a new mobile set of shopping at the shopping mall with dad. Dad did not want to buy that phone. Then he got angry and came to mind and decided to commit suicide.
Nowadays, in our society, we often observe such tendency among teenager. What is the reason and what can be solved? Talking about this with Khwaja Yunus Ali Medical College's Assistant Professor Dr. Farooq Hossain of the Department of Psychiatry.
Faruk Hossain said, there are various types of physical-mental-hormonal changes among teenager. It is difficult for many to adapt to the changes during these changes.
Depression can take place on personal, family, and social issues among them, unrest. Many times their feelings, frustration, increased levels of suicide, and thought of choosing a path like suicide. '
Farooq Hossain also urged all to raise awareness about the situation and to bring the teenager back home to a healthy life. He said that the teenager is affected by seeing and seeing many things in the society, such as an event making the impact of doing good work in them, just like taking a similar path from any negative event, they think of the way of liberation many times.
Since their age does not make full development of their personality, but they want to think, many times they go wrong in deciding on different issues.
If a teenager looks at suicide tendencies, the first responsibility of the family is to talk to him, to give him a chance to express his feelings. If he can express emotion with someone, most of the time he returns to normal mental condition and can protect himself from dire consequences.
In this case, educational institutions, friends and teachers will come forward to help. Awareness is to be created at each level. There is a big role in the media, such news can not be broadcasted in the media, which can be misled by the soft-minded teenagers.
The focus should be to increase mental health awareness. It is necessary to make sure that the words of their minds can be expressed to the family.
Many times the teenager has chosen to take suicides because many different needs are not met, this trend will decrease if you know the economic status of your family. They are much more emotional, and can not control emotions, so the accident is more likely to be in this puberty.
The signs that he will be the personality of the person also starts in this age.
She tries to find the role model. She wants to be like a father, mother, siblings, relatives, teacher or any celebrity. Whenever there is a lot of difference between the person with whom it is expected, frustration may be created, maybe even from physical-mental-sexual abuse.
