" Someone who's been a member of your current crew for a while now may be at odds with the rest of the gang over a really petty issue. It may seem that you only have two options. Try to help (always your first choice) by doing everything you can to help make peace. The second apparent option, which may seem inevitable soon, is for you to see the depth of the problem, and refuse to get in the middle. But isn't there a happy medium?"
