What should we (woman) do before committed to marriage.

Dear Girls..

Here are the most important things we need to do before you committed to marriage, its my own opinion as single woman based on reading books and hearing some true story from my friends who are married, fyi woman here in Indonesia mostly get married in age 18-25 years old, most of them are not mentally and financially well prepared.

First, we need to be able to take care of ourselves, and be happy. getting married and expecting the man to make you happy is the perfect recipe for disaster. if you are not happy with yourself, no one can make you happy. not even loving husband or children.

second, we need to sort our shit out. know your dragons and demons, you fears and insecurities, your traumas and insanity. you have to learn how to deal with your own shit, because marriage will push you to the edge and drive you and your partner crazy. believe me!!

so let's thinking again, are you ready for marriage or just a wedding??
let me know your opinion in the comments.

don't forget, let's spread love and good words.