The hurt is your creation.

Someone could cheat you financially, ethically, morally, abuse you, and scold you. That is what they have done and that is all they can do. That is where anybody outsider’s power ends.
But the feelings are not created by them; instead they are your own creations.
The feelings like, hurt, resentment, revenge, hatred, depression, pity are all your creation.
What you do is your choice - how you are going to react. Same situations different people create different responses.
No one can hurt you

UNLESS YOU ALLOW THEM MENTALLY.

Remember any negative feelings will damage you before it damages others. So create positive feelings and leave such persons.