Every event in our life that is happening is a situation. It entirely depends on us how we want to face these situations.
Every Situation has 2 choices that we can make and it all depends on us what we want to choose.
1 choice can be that I take it calmly and put complete thought before I take any action, and 1 choice is to be impulsive and immediately go ahead with what comes to my mind first.
The choice is entirely mine, whether I want to react and take things to next level or be calm think and act on what I need to say or what action I need to take.
People say they are very sensitive and hence they do not have control over their emotions which make them react, but what is the definition of sensitivity. Reacting is not Sensitivity.
Ideally you are sensitive when you understand the other person and when you are in a position to empathize with them. When you stop being judgmental about other people, you become sensitive towards them because then you are trying to understand the person as is and your reaction also then will be appropriate.
There are times when we so hastily speak out or take actions without putting any thoughts to it and then repent. You get a nasty mail from your boss, and your instant reaction is I want to give it back with a little extra dose and then you hit that send button and its gone and the damage is done.
No situation in life is permanent. Everything comes as an experience, In such situations mindfully take a moment to reflect and check with your own self what is the end result you desire from it. That will solve all your problems and give you clarity on how you need to react and respond.
Hasty decisions, hasty actions, hasty words can cause a great damage to your life, it’s better to pause before going ahead.
At times we keep fighting struggling for something and after sometime we feel exhausted and then wish that it just gets over. So the point is was all the fight worth for, when at the end of it you want it to get over. We could have just finished it at the very first step.
We react most of the time cause we want to prove, but what is it that we want to prove that “I am right”, does that really matter. What matters most is “Have I done the right thing”
At the end of the journey you will be remembered for the person you were and not for your awards and medals.
With Love and Angels Blessings 💖💖👼🏻👼🏻
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