There are moments in our lives when you wake up and find your first gray hair; when you stay up late, you find yourself physically overwhelmed; when you realize that you quickly forgot what you were about to do; when you find out, Climbing the stairs is no longer as easy as it used to be, and you start wheezing before you take two steps; when you find that wrinkles have crept quietly up the face of your once-blooming spouse; and when you find that your child has grown up and is getting farther and farther away from you.
At this moment, we find ourselves really old. We became anxious, panicked, bewildered, and even afraid of how to deal with sudden aging. We are afraid of our old faces, and always remember ourselves as exuberant; we are afraid of our aging bodies, of not being able to carry our unruly souls any longer; we are afraid of not accomplishing anything, we are afraid that our bodies will not be able to carry our unruly souls any longer. Afraid that this beautiful world will gradually forget us; we are afraid to become weak, can no longer like a superman to protect our families; we are afraid of bone erosion alone, you busy, he busy, leaving me alone; We fear that death will come, close our eyes, and everything in this life will become a thing of the past. You see, aging is so terrible, sometimes it is like the fingers of Buddha, no matter how we toss and jump, we can not escape from this huge "Wuzhi Mountain" after all; sometimes it is like a terrible shadow that follows us, and we run away from it. But there's nowhere to hide. But is aging really that scary?
In fact, old age is just a stage of life. Just like after the spring flowers and summer rain, autumn and winter will eventually come, we do not need to blossom and fall secretly sad, because this is the four seasons, is reincarnation, in the same way we do not need to grow old and lonely, Because this is also the reincarnation of life, is the only way through which all things flow. Learning to grow old is a blessing and a compulsory course for all of us. Stephen OsTed has written a book called "unraveling the Mystery of Aging." Aging, he says, is a biological paradox, but few people appreciate it. A mayfly lives only 24 hours, a fly lives only a week, a dog may live for more than a decade, a person for up to a century, and a tree can live for a thousand years.
No one can stop the passage of time, every life on earth will grow old, leave, this is the fairest place in the world, we have nothing to complain about. Although we can not control the pace of aging, but we can still control our lives, accept aging, learn to grow old gracefully. Don't be afraid to be forgotten by the world
With the passage of time, no matter the ordinary people, or emperors and generals, will eventually fade out of the public eye. When we are young, we live for our family, for our face, for our money, for our honor, but we never live for ourselves. Old age is a blessing given to us by heaven, a period of cultivation after a glorious life. Let the world forget us, so that we can stop accommodating the world and live for ourselves once and for all! don't be afraid to be alone.
In this world, husband and wife, father and son, no matter what kind of harmony, heart and mind, everyone is still an independent individual of life. Therefore, we should learn to comfort ourselves when we are lonely, and to warm ourselves when we are lonely. The world is noisy, rarely lonely, this moment of peace can give the soul the most complete cleansing. Don't be afraid to die.
Don't be afraid to die, it's just the beginning of another form of life. Death is the law of nature, to understand that all living things on earth do not follow this natural law. There is no elixir of immortality in the world. Only by facing death correctly and letting nature take its course will life be happy and meaningful in its twilight years. None of us can resist aging, aging is extinguished, but also a re-cast. Our lives will continue in our children, as words, as scrolls, as symbols, every drop of which is the mark of our existence.
We will grow old, but the people we love will grow up, they will carry our blood and spirit proudly from generation to generation, and life will be passed on and on in a reincarnated way. Our lost youth will also become priceless memories, endless. Why be afraid of old? old to have old style, old to have old grace, just like spring and autumn, the four seasons reincarnation, have their own demeanor.
Let us always keep a calm, tranquil, leisurely state; always keep a quiet heart, less extravagant, more satisfied, flattered, elegant old age. ". Youth is short, but life is long. Hand in hand to forward the article out of it, wish you happiness and happiness for a lifetime of the Lunar New year!