Why Life is so hard ?
Question arise with so many reasons, that life is so hard and sucks at many stages. Life is full of pains and disappointments. There are so many true reasons behind "Life is so hard" in today's life, such as terrorist attacks, poverty, sex, hatred towards each other, racism, slavery, hunger, hypocrites, and many more reason to get the answer of this question. It is always not easy to get along. Each person has his or her own interest domain. Everyone has freedom to go where they want to go. So it's never been easy in life to get along someone you want to be. We all are emotional, and it has so many ups and downs. this make life so hard to live.
There are a lot of forces, which won't let you do anything freely in life. Many factors resist free will of human. Life becomes so hard to live, when you are not allowed to do anything with free will.
We have to face hypocrites in our life. No one admits to be hypocrites. Everyone feels insult to be called hypocrites. But, This is bitter reality. We are hypocrites somewhere somehow in life. As well as Selfishness makes life hard.
Why Life Sucks ?
Here are something fruitful for you, when you feel like your life is sucking you now.
It is not what really happens to us, and we start to be worried about it. But, it is actually what we think. Make it tougher and harder for us. We feel terrible and afraid that something will happen to us and will never gonna be same again.
Sometimes questions arises in our mind that life is sucking.
- Why you are not earning money now?
This is not what we should think. We all are at our own time zone. So don't be in a race or competition with the ones who are ahead from you in time zone. So better time will come, your time zone will arrive for earning money.
- Relationships not working ?
Misunderstanding usually eats and ends up the relationships among the beloved ones. Be positive and constructive. Avoid each and every negative thoughts coming to your mind. Talk to the one whom you are caring about. Resolve the issue instead of taking it on your mind, which will further ruin more your relationship. So ups and downs come in your way, but be brave and confident to resolve every issue, instead to surrender to them.
- Why you don't do, What you love to do ?
This is how life sucks? Yes, this is the most irritating factor. Do what you like to do. Never feel afraid of expressing your wish. Because one day you will realize and you won't be able to go back and figure out the things for you. For better satisfied and happy life, Do what you are willing to do.
- Feeling like Isolated ?
Yes, this is one the major issue in our today's life. People are facing this very commonly. Due to excessive use of the technology, including mobile, laptops and computers. Connecting with people on social media, leads us to leave isolate our real relations. We don't give time to our siblings and parents.
Negative impact occurs on the individuals who are being isolated. Feels like lonely in the world.
Why Life is Unfair?
Actually it is not what that life is unfair, but it is all about your broken fairness. Broken promises, Broken Hopes.
If you are not conquering your goals, all you will feel only that life is unfair for you. Life will become fair and well for you, when you work hard enough to achieve all your desired goals.
Life is a competition. Life is a race. But, in between the people of your time zone. Don't compete with those who are behind or ahead in time zone. This will totally break you into disappointments and sadness. So compete with the people of your time zone.
People Judge in life. Yes, people judge each other. Sometime people and all those close relationship holders will judge you for what you do, but never for what you think. Usually this happens with many people commonly. But, somehow somewhere people think that actions speaks louder than words. People are more disclosed through their actions. But, sometimes people are obliged to do some unwanted things. So better not to judge someone on their actions all the time.
Our Ideas always reflect into our self interest. We always wish the best for ourselves. Life is unfair always, as we always wish to be like someone. I wish I were like him, I wish I were like John. So this is what we are not satisfied with whom we are. We never realized our abilities and uniqueness. Everyone is better somewhere somehow.
Conclusion:
Life is not hard, Life is not Unfair, and Life never sucks. This is all what we think. Ups and Downs are parts of life, Facing them with open chest, high moral and confident, Bravely beating them in a race is our responsibility and duty. Don't over think of anything, as it will get heavier on mind. Hence will cause disappointments. Chill and Enjoy each and every aspect of life.
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