Relationships can be amazing. However, figuring out if you are with “the right person” can be difficult and stressful. Sometimes we want something so bad that we see things that are not truly there. Yes, love can be “blinding” and at times, our judgment is blurred. More often than not, there are clear signs that scream, “He’s Not The One!” that we ignore.
COMMUNICATION IS A SHIT SHOW!
You find it difficult to talk to him about pretty much anything without it turning into an argument. Remember, communication is essential in any relationship. If you can’t talk to your partner, clearly something is wrong.
HE LIES TO YOU.
If your boyfriend lies to you about where he’s going, who he’s with, or what he’s doing, chances are he may be up to no good. After a lie, no matter how big or small, everything else becomes questionable.
NOTHING IS EVER HIS FAULT.
Nobody’s perfect, sure. But, if he can’t admit when he’s wrong, he certainly isn’t right. A guy that can’t acknowledge when he’s wrong is incapable of being vulnerable, and therefore can make intimacy impossible. You can’t change someone who sees nothing wrong with their actions.
HE CAN, BUT YOU CAN'T.
It’s okay for your boyfriend to do certain things, but they are completely off limits for you. Wait, what?! Equality is important in any healthy relationship. One person should not have more power or control over the other.
YOU'RE ALWAYS THINKING ABOUT WHAT HE'S UP TO.
If you find yourself thinking about what he’s doing every time you’re not around, clearly there is no trust there. A woman’s intuition never lies. If you feel like there’s some funny business going on, there probably is. This may be a sign that it’s time to move on to a relationship that doesn’t feel like a guessing game.
Finally, If you have ever wondered if you’re in the wrong relationship, then he’s definitely not “the one”. Take a step back and evaluate your relationship instead of overlooking your doubts. Again, the signs are always there, don’t ignore them.