Learning to be patient when hurt is difficult, because at that moment we must learn not to let our hearts be angry, hate, and complain because we are being slashed.
And do we know what will make us feel calm and easy to learn to be patient? That is, be assured of God's love, that he will never remain silent seeing His servants hurt, so soften the heart to remain patient when hurt.
Do not let your mind fall asleep to keep remembering how the evil treatment of someone who has scratched your heart's wounds, because God has seen it perfectly perfectly.
Calm down, the retaliation is very real, and certainly when God is replying, it is truly more painful than what you feel right now.
And no need to rush to see it meet its own karma, because God knows when they must receive retribution from Him, then stop grieving.
And just give up your heart with a sincere feeling, so that you don't feel the slightest loss, especially before God. Because when you can't be patient, especially if you hate it you really will despise before God.
So just calm your heart by continuing to believe that God's vengeance must be perfect, because by remembering this, the desire to reciprocate will never land on your heart.
And perfect according to God, then it really will be second to none in this world, and surely the vengeance will be more painful than what you feel.
In essence, how much pain there is in your heart, do not let your heart be tempted by emotions to venge it, let God alone govern your vengeance for him. Because you will be very losers if later God's love is far from you, just because there are too many liver diseases nesting in your heart, because it leaves a burning vengeance.
Rest assured, because God will sooner or later come to him, when? When they arrived, the time to meet with a reply from their own actions.
So remember, Do not be angry so badly if someone is hurting you, because without seeking revenge Allah will come to Him.