If a woman does not get married on time or for life, she is tagged wayward, proud, ambitious, arrogant, naive, witch, ogbanje etc etc while the one who is married is considered to be very intelligent and smart. Women are their own worst enemies and the greatest enablers of the man. They declare war on themselves while trying their utmost best to win the affections of the man.
The irresponsible and wayward child is the one who is just like the mother while the successful children take after their father. The woman is blamed for the wrongs of her children. It is attributed to her inability raise the children properly or better still foisting bastards on the unfortunate husband.
The woman has to endure all life throws at her. When it comes to sex, she is expected to lie still and enjoy it even if the sex is not good. She bears the brunt if the man has concubine(s) outside his home. While on the other hand, if a woman decides to keep an amorous relationship outside her matrimonial home, she is shamed for it. And the society goes on to wonder why a married woman would dare desire another man when her husband is already doing her a favor by providing her with the basic human wants.
The man is a perfect human whom the woman must play down her perceived arrogance to be favoured by him. She is at pains to fit into the perfect image the man has carved out for her despite the changes she encounters in years of childbirth, nursing, nurturing and home management. She has to keep up with the demands of motherhood and remain the super-duper hot mama the man expects her to be.
While the man is permitted to frolic as long as he has what it takes to catch the attention of other females outside,the woman is expected to close shop and watch from the sides while her husband transforms into the popular sugar daddy.
Though the story of the woman and her vagina is not likely to change anytime soon, there are women who have carved niches for themselves. They have stood tall in the face of tribulations and emerged victorious and today, the world world sings their praises.