WHAT IS EXPECTED OF A MAN IN MARRIAGE....#1

hello dear esteem friendsThis is Sam and will like to share an experience with two people staying together, when l was a kid, l always wondered how my mum and dad use to stay together upon the differences they had,until when l grew up l realized that each one of them had a great responsibility to play in other to make the union which is called marriage work.Each man have a dream of how he want his wife/woman to be and if he is not married will also be thinking of how her future wife is going to be.
But my question is have u sat down to think about your responsibility if one day you come across your dream woman or with a woman at this moment?from my parent l came to understand that marriage is when two separate ,unique and whole person [one male,one female] make a covenant to exchange vows,committing themselves to remain together until death.Since two people are coming together for such a great and loving journey l have come to learn that each one has a specific role to play.And that l have term such role as a responsibility.The man has his as well as the woman too
Therefore what is responsibility ie a state of being responsible,accountable,answerable and liability.Everything in life has a purpose .understanding the intrinsic God given purpose for male and female will enlighten your understanding to enable the man play his responsibility to perfection.
One can only be responsible when he /she knows the purpose of what he/she is in or handling.
God has a purpose for both couples and living outside Gods purpose is to cause frustration and unfulfillment.
Therefore God purpose expect two sexes working together in co operation to accomplish a mutual vision.Accordingly,male and female have complementary design and responsibilities to enable them fulfill Gods purpose together.
The responsibilities of the man from my experience l have group into six categories....
1.worship
2.love
3.work
4.cultivate
5.protect
6.Teach
I will say any Man not performing this in the family is malfunctioning.
Man in the family always need vision to create a good reputation by performing his responsibilities.proverb 29:18{where there is no vision ,the people perish, but he that keepth the law ,happy is he.}Having a family vision is so important that if you don't have it , there will be no discipline to carry your responsibilities.Note this keeps you focus and alive.
I remember when l was a kid my dad will wake up the whole family to meet at the sitting room to begin the day with a daily devotion.l was sometimes angry because l always thought he was disturbing my sleep not known it was his greatest Responsibility to ensure the family get closer to God through Worship.l later release that for the man to carry the rest of the other five responsibilities he must always be at the presence of the lord.
Genesis 2:23 Then the rib which the lord God had taken from man He made into a Woman and brought her to the man.From the scripture the lord brought the woman to the man in his presence so the man in marriage must always be at the presence of the lord because the woman was handed to the ma in the presences of God.The man responsibility to worship is to lead the family through prayer and even help them serve the lord.As a married man is your responsibility to worship GOD as each day goes by as well as leading your family members to do the same.Young man who are yet to tie the knot need to understand that the wonderful lady they want to spend the rest of their life with, must know God and that can be possible when they serve GOD With a clean heart.
TO BE CONTINUE.........DO FOLLOW ME AND ENJOY WHAT IS EXPECTED OF YOU AS A MAN IN MARRIAGE PART 2.BE THE MAN THE FAMILY WILL ALWAYS BE HAPPY TO SEE.............THANK YOU
HAVE A NICE DAY AND A WONDERFUL MARRIAGE......,,,,,,,