in our lives today many of us lives in regret either by blaming their parents or brothers and sisters for their misfortune in life. It is high time for us to realize that no one among this people can dictate our destiny if not we and God . Once this is realized then a new kind of life comes in to play a better role in us.No one is the architect of our misfortune and as so God is the only one that can direct our path and our affairs so we don't need to waste our precious time looking for whom to apportion blames on instead believe that God will restore all our wasted years. Let us all forget our past loses and hurts.Some of us have formed the habit of running from pillar to post in search of our lost destiny . From one church to the other, from one fetish priest to the other all I the name of blames forgotten that we might be the cause of our problem . An opportunity lost can never be regained come rain come shine so we need not allow any opportunity to pass us bye . It is also a better opportunity for us to renew our mind by not taking things for granted Let us think the best about us and believe that all the past mistakes will turn to blessing and development.