Eventualities are said to be unexpected situations or event which might occur in life. These events or situations as they occur maybe out of compulsion, thus to say they come with forces and pressure that can't do away with them or escape. In human life, there are many things that come unexpectedly or without signals of their occurrences, and by hook or crook we must hold the bull by the horns. Many things happens which are unpleasant and untimely to our notice, and because of that they affect our lives in so many ways. But, how can we be sure of these happening so that we always be armoured and fight against them? That is the dufficult aspect in life.
In life, sickness, death, loss of job or collapse of business, loss of property through fire outbreaks or robbery, accident through vehicles or any other form are some of the eventualities that may happen to pressurize our lives, dumping our Spirit, put us into shame and make us sorrow. No one is pleasantly prepared to face one of these situations, since their occurrences lead to spending a lot of money, apart from the sadness they leave us. Imagine how it would be diffucult to to re-organize yourself and acquire property you have taken several years to stock, when they got burnt by fire or they got looted by robbers. You would see the whole life haven ended at the moment. We find it very difficult to get huge money to buy all those items. But it's one of the eventualities in life that we can face one day.
This is one of the eventualities that just happened to me. Unexpectedly, my daughter was attacked by serious sickness at the time when I was not financially sound. Meanwhile, the doctors were demanding huge sum of money before my daughter would be treated. In fact, I nearly went mad, thinking which source to raise that huge amount of money for my daughter's medication to start. The most painful aspect of this eventuality is that "a friend is no more a friend," a brother is no more a brother, or a family is no more a family." I mean, all your friends, brothers or families can disappoint you even when they have money. So, the only alternative left was to contact my Mother Bank for some loan. This eventuality which comes with pressure is similar to having your close relative dead. Two things come into play here, whiles you're passing through the agony of sorrow, you have to search for money for mortuary and funeral rites.
We must always maintain our dignities, the fame, favour and glory that God Almighty gave us. But, before you realise, some of these eventualities may put us to shame in which we aren't ready for. We aren't beggars but some circumstances may lead us to beg, since if you don't beg things would get out of hands, situation would be worsen. For instance, you had lost all your property and basic needs through fire outbreak, you now have vurtually nothing to live, even what you will is a problem. Looking at this situation, the only option is to announce on media stations of your situation, so that phelanthropist may come to your aid, meanwhile you don't want this situation to travel because of your privacy. In another instance that you can be put to shame is that, you're sick with chronic disease, or your child is affect with this chronic disease which has become necessary raise billions of dollars before treatment is administered. You can't afford this huge amount, so the only alternative is to put before public and individual donation on the media for support. All these situations can put you to shame of which you don't prefer to meet it.
I see eventualities, whether they will come or not, we must always prepare to meet them one day. For some of the eventualities, by all means we shall meet them, and some of them, they wouldn't happen to us in life. It is better to prepare ahead for future what are bound to happen, so that when they happen, they wouldn't be so strange to our lives. No one expects calamity such as fire outbreak which will ruin all our belongings or possessions, yet, they can happen to our lives. Many things are very petinent in the course of making preparations for future eventualities, that is encouraging ourselves all the time, standing firm in times of these situations and keeping money for future eventualities. No one anticipate and pray for such bad times, since we have no option to meet them that is why we must always prepare.