Glad to see you back on here!
It was a family friendly place with rules about sexual conduct. Not quite as strict as no hand holding, but basically nothing overtly sexual. The really bad stuff happened after hours when the manager/owner had already gone to bed. I'm pretty sure it's a case of no one ever confronting the guy if his behavior got to be too much. For me it was a problem of he's a member, I am not. So how much would my word be worth compared to his?