A good article and very honest. we all outgrow our lives at some point in them ! I hope you find what you're looking for and keep seeing the journey as the most important aspect. I mean, we're all headed for exactly the same destination and you have to leave all your things at the end of the line. possessions, baggage, people. every day being alive should be lived as though it could be your last. It's difficult to look at it that way unless you've nearly had everything taken away. when you realise that the only thing you really need is oxygen and even water can wait, then you (well me anyway) begin to appreciate the small things. I recently became a Dad to not 1 but 2 wonderful daughters. I'm not going to outgrow them.. ever ! although one day they will perhaps outgrow me. and that's not to say it's not going to be an amazing journey. I truly feel like I'm driving the train now for them and my own whims are not so important as their needs. hope that doesn't sound corny. Zoe & Phoebe if you ever find this to read this one day, I hope it makes sense ! x