If you don't know what you want, don't say you never had a chance. -- Napoleon Hill.
Oftentimes in life, the people who complain and whine a lot about things, usually turn out to be the ones who always have a ready excuse for their failures and mistakes. To such people, nothing is ever their fault. They'd rather claim to be victims of a wide range of thins such as Heritage, Educational background, the environment, basically anything at all that they perceive to place them at a disadvantage. whether it be true or not.
Who knows? maybe if we look hard enough within us, we may find that we too make up excuses for not doing what we ought to do, or not sticking till the end of a cause. well ditch that!
To be successful, you need to ditch the habit of excuse-making, take on responsibilities, set goals, and try as much as you can to beat those goals. Where others see despair, see the light at the end of the tunnel. approach situations with enthusiasm, confidence and zest! Be Fabulous.
You still have a chance ahead, make the best of it.