I am a kind of person who have big imagination of how i want the world to be and imagination of things i want for my self in this world. The reality of this life have taught me a big lesson of not to dwell in fantasy, the world he (
Hard work they say is the key to become successful in life but i say reality of life makes me understand that its all about luck. image source
The holy bible even says in the book of Romans 9 vs 15&16 that it is not about who willeth nor of him that runneth but of God that sheweth mercy, God will show mercy on whom he will show mercy on. The scripture confirms it that its not all about running to become successful but its about God mercy and luck.
I wish for a world where there is no hunger or suffering or war or famine but reality of life is that things like this happen because we live in a world where all things are not equal. The bad things that happen in this world is a push for someone else to become a successful person. Looking at the stories of richest men in this world, I believe the situation of bad things around them at one point in there life push them to become the rich men they are today. This same circumstance that the rich men of this world have faced to make them rich is the same situation some have faced that they became a evil person, some have even faced such situation and they have lose their life to it. That is just another example of the reality of the world we live in.
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We all want to follow the footstep of every successful person to be successful like them but the reality of life is that you can do exactly the same thing they did and things will still go in opposite direction.
I am a guy who have a lot of wants example is last year during my compulsory one year National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) progromme, i hope that by latest 2-3 months i will secure of a job but here is reality of life hitting me (9 months after still no job). I want many other things like to have a consensual sex with 
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Now let me say this, reality of life does not mean we should not have a plan for our life but all i have been trying to say is that while working towards the success of our plan we should be ready to face anything reality of life will throw at us.
I hope you have been able to learn one or two things. Thanks for your time.
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