Insightful post! (ugh - did I just type that?) I like the analogy to writing. You've gotta tell a story.
Have you seen Slumdog Millionaire? There's a couple of scenes early in the movie specifically about begging, and how certain stories can extract more from passers by - specfically because of the perceived story. Good movie.
RE: "The hand that doesn't tell a story gets no penny"