Learning to love yourself or even loving yourself is the best attribute anyone can have. It brings self joy, you'll be proud of yourself and takes away any kind of complex whatsoever. Learning not to care about what people think about you and at the same time changing your bad ways is always nice. Being unethical or different in your ways and dealings don't make you unimportant or irrelevant, it just makes you.....different and makes you real.
Stop trying to change your life because of someone else or trying to fit into other people's life it's wrong, find people who you merge and stick with instead of the ones you try to fit in with.
Everybody in society were not meant to be the same, everybody in society should have their opinions(its a free world), but the fact is, do not let those who think you are worthless and useless have a saying or a part or role in how you behave everyday
Make yourself what most people don't see in you, make yourself what they don't believe you ever can be, make yourself what they wish to be.
A DJ once said, "when I perform anywhere, I don't focus on the ones that are not dancing to my music, that are sitting and just looking at me, I focus on the person or people that are dancing their hats off".
That's it! Live for the ones who see the greatness in you and the ones who never stops seeing the light in you. Don't just live for the moments, live for a living and make them regret every negative word they've spoken about you.
DON'T FORGET TO LIVE LIKE A QUEEN/KING.