Life is hard, there’s no doubt about that and in the words of rocky it will push you to the ground and keep you there. Although life will do this there is no need why you should stay there, every day we are faced with different challenges that question our ability to push through the trials and come out all smiling or all battered but strong still. Challenges are there for a reason, although we can’t all be winners but we should have a fair balance where we take several tall glasses of Wins and a shot of failure…it’s all about balance and an equilibrium.
Trust me you don’t want to live a life where you are just living and not existing, most of us have not even faced our challenges yet probably because we are too scared to step out we still in live in our protective shell pretending we don’t care but the truth is we do. I will tell you this as a psychologist and a person we care at least 20% we do…. the fact that we have to acknowledge the fact that we don’t care says your situation and environment is the biggest factor of life. It’s just like in social psychology where things or people are affected by situational factors that are beyond their control. Most times the situation you find yourself can be limiting and it just finds a way of killing your spirit. One solution would be to be prepared, ever heard of the phrase ‘Preparedness meets opportunity’? You can have multiple opportunities to live the life but you are not prepared. Also the reason why most people have not tried living is the fact that you don’t have the correct motivator or your environment doesn’t stimulate you to get work and do it. Also you might be prepared to live and come out but you don’t have the opportunity to it, I hear people say don’t let your situation or environment affect you, that is horse crap and a lie. The push through is the come up. Don’t be scared of it, push through and live your life because you don’t get it back. Don’t let things that shouldn’t matter upset you or take you back. Push through and come out smiling like the blasted hero that you are!
Just like Rocky said; Your ability to fight back even after falling to the ground is what matters.
We are all stumbling through life, No one ever gets it so smooth. Find your purpose and live it!
RAE