I basically agree with you. However, there is some subtle magic in consciously living an ordinary working life. Even in the midst of the rush our and all that stress there is a silent space within us. I find joy inside that space, calmly observing whatever happens. Attitude is crucial because it can make everything harder or easier. Unfortunately, people are often not aware they can change their attitude. So, knowledge is crucial to make a choice. On the other side, not everyone is in a position to navigate his life in a preferred direction due to debilitating circumstances. In such cases, acceptance (zen, stoicism) is the most fruitful approach.