I have been thinking about this for months now and finally going to write about it. The older i get i am more observant on how people have conversation. Its very hard to have an intelligent conversation, such as sharing ideas and knowledge these days. I guess im just lucky to have a group of intelligent people around me. So lets talk about these two types of people.
#Win Conversation
I always meet one type of people that is they only want to win conversation. They do not care if they are right or wrong as long as they win the conversation and to have the last say. Usually when i meet this type of people i just say "you are right" or "perfect" and so on.
The reason why i do this its not because i do not respect them, it just that even if you tell them about your point of view even if you are right with certain things they will not listen or care what you say anyway, because they think they are always right. So to avoid an arguement or worse to lose a friend i just say "sure you're right perfect".
Because i was like them when i was younger so i understand them perfectly. Because of this type of conversation i had with them due to my positive answer to them, few months later unexpected things start to happen they support my business eventhough i never even thought of selling it to them. But because i told them they are right even when they are dead wrong i gain their respect, friendship and business at the same time how cool is that?
#Understanding conversation (my favourite people)
The other type is they understand the conversation when they speak they speak with facts. Also they understood your point of view and they want you to understand their point of view as well, which is good both agree or disagree with each other but still they can share what they thought about it without making it into an arguement or a fist fight.
What about your area, are they the same as above mentioned?
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