Hello!
Today I would like to talk to you on the topic: How to is changing a person's character throughout life!
- Victor Hugo about a man: "every person has three characters: that which is attributed to him, One which he himself attributes to himself, and finally One that is actually!
Have you ever wondered why changing your opinion, Outlook, attitude??? Why is this happening??? And this happens because changing your character, and it is influenced by many factors!
For starters, you can note the atypical changes,such changes include age-related changes in human nature. They are as follows. With age, one becomes gradually detached from the so-called children's traits, which distinguish the child's behavior from the behavior of an adult. This, for example, irresponsibility, moodiness, self-centeredness, tearfulness, childhood fears and more.
With the deliverance of the children's character traits, a person acquires a new, positive character traits and his personality are fixed specific adult traits, such as a wiser experience, tolerance, responsibility, intelligence, prudence and others. With the accumulation of life experience of a person changing views on what is happening and attitude to him. This also affects the character of a person. For example, there are certain differences in the characters of people in the 30-40-year-old, 50-year-old and 60-70 years of age. These differences can be described as follows.
People who are 30 or 40 years old, still live mostly of their future, their activities, thoughts and ideas are filled with far-reaching plans for the future and preparing for it. People 50 years of age are abroad, where their minds and real life meet both the past and the future. This means that their character changed in such a way as to match the greatest present interest. For example, in their nature can be sidelined traits associated with dreams and dreams, but do not yet appear traits related to nostalgia for the past.
People who are 60-70 years old, much less think about the future than about the present and the past. In addition, many people at this time begin to experience physical ailments, their performance falls, there is a need to closely monitor their health and to save power. It can also lead to changes in the nature of man, to the emergence in it of new features, such as rhythm, calmness, serenity, tranquility.
With regard to the specific individual changes, except that they are associated with a unique event in a person's life, they are still conditioned by the past life of this man. If he eventually there are some new traits, their appearance and future fate depend substantially on prevailing human nature. Usually appear much more often and much faster fixed in a person's character such new features that are consonant with already existing traits. As for a completely new, unexpected changes of character they are after 30 years of age, as a rule, do not occur, except in cases of serious illnesses, life upheavals and traumas.
Also remember, People can create their own character!!!
Recommendations:
1) be Able to critically assess the strengths and weaknesses of his character, behavior.
2) Convince yourself of the need to become a better, fairer and kinder ( a belief is a choice of behavior).
3) Say to yourself: "I want to be different. I'm going to be so. I'm changing already. I already like how I want to be".
4) Talk before sleep, " the Day is lived not in vain. That's what I did useful. That's what made mistakes. Here's what you need to do tomorrow."
5) always Stay cheerful. Manage your mood. Don't fall into the Blues.
6) Learn to encourage yourself for the good deeds of yourself and others.
I hope you use this article. Change only for the better!!!
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