Sorry to hear about your horrible experience. Silver lining, you found Steemit, which is the most amazing thing I've discovered in 2016. This is the type of thing I'd like to see more of on here. Not necessarily because I like drama, but because that's what most people use social media for. Glad to see you on Steemit and I would like to add that your English is better than most of my Facebook friends who are native speakers :D. Welcome.