A picture of myself taken by my bestie on my engagement ceremony, january 2014. My marriage life build the strong version of me. Thanks to my husband for being supportive man & my son as a source of motivation.
Everyone experience downfalls somewhere at one point of your life. Women is one of the chapter in this earth, same as men. I would say neither women nor men is the main chapter in this earth. Because I believe men and women are mutual soul that need two important thing as to sustain human relationships. Respect & love. Those women that came across in my life is mostly threatened by some way, it’s either due to their confusing culture, burdening lifestyle, unwanted rules created by human & typical relationship dramas. Be it my mom, sisters or even myself have experienced the bitter side due to those situations. It’s sort of you stuck somewhere in your life because of another person.
The ridiculous amount of time has been spent worrying about how to solve it where the solution will never ever come right away. Young & being innocent is another big problem as you don’t realise the truth. As days goes by everything comes into clear pictures. Despair, anxiety & desperate for good loving relationships is the only return. Time change & heal everything. Have any of you heard of love & hate relationship, yes, that’s the exact matter that mostly women stucked. Women always has been thought as someone who could be dictated instead of nurturing them respectfully. I’m not picking my way to be dictated. It never gonna happen. Because I’m a human as well not a slave. I will never allow anyone to look down at me regardless wherever & whatever I am being.
Sometimes the oppression comes from one woman towards another woman or group of women towards a woman. Why? I couldn’t find the exact source but I believe due to no self control, no self awareness or even they might be in stress as well. This chain need to be broken.
However man can actually be another main factor of oppression by being a betrayer, abusive, dominating family in wrong direction & woman as his next person obeying all his commands. Woman left with no choice? No! You have choices, fight it, win the moments.
Many women couldn’t express out themselves. Suppressed. Women worried & worried about other people. Protecting their loved ones despite getting abused by their loved ones. They willing to sacrifice themselves towards a slow poison that actually distributed by their loved ones. They take in those pain, mental distress, emotional blackmails, & overall contribute towards unhealthy relationship. The entire family is in distress as well.
Women should be strong & stronger to expose those evil hearted people. Those oppression need be stopped. Don’t be ashamed to say it out. Don’t hold yourself to something don’t deserve your soul. Be bold. Don’t be a bad example to your kid. They shouldn’t get oppressed or be an oppressor. They shouldn’t learn suppression as well.
Nowadays many give hands for woman empowerment. Fight for it, your soul deserve equally as other human being, embrace happiness, healthy & longevity in relationships. Forgive & forget when the person truly change into better person? Possible? Depending on the personality actually. Yes you might ask, “what if he or she does again even after forgiving? Is there a room for second chance or third chance?” I would say depending on how you able to cope it as a person. Not everyone have same strong mental capacity & you gotta treasure it on your own. Everyone’s battle not the same thing. The severity matters most to decide on next move. Be careful & sure on risk of your decisions.
