We have all had a relationship. Of those that when they start, they are the sweetest thing in the world. Both seek to consent, tend to give details and be tender with each other. They are waiting for her or for him, you want to know how it was during the day; you remind him that he has to go to the doctor or take the pill, because you know that your partner is quite forgetful with those things; you start to know her and know what foods hurt her and which one she likes very much; In short, you establish a very beautiful and incredible intimacy, which starts in those first months of relationship, where you are completely sure that person you love. You would give anything for her or him and, although at the beginning it is difficult for you to admit, your smile makes you incredibly happy, something that you did not care about before.
Even though you feel very good about yourself, you begin to include that person in your life. When your friends invite you, you feel that they are not only inviting you, but that it is also good to include them. It also happens with your family, you include it, because you want to know it, to know why you love it and why it makes you fall in love. Even when you go out alone with your friends or with your friends, you like to let them know that you're fine and that you're only going to have a couple of drinks, although you both know it's not like that. That does not mean that you are subject to her or him, but that you reach a degree of maturity, in which distrust begins with oneself, with the fact that if you betray, you have the fear of being betrayed.
All plans are two. Go out with your friends, with your family, see that series together, those movies, go eat, go out and travel and get to know places. Even, establish a life as a couple, together, even if only to see how it goes. Whether or not the thing will work. In those plans, all of two, there may be complications. Maybe one of the two can not one day or maybe the other can not, but it does not worry them, because they are things that usually happen.
Complications can be a beginning and an end. The end of that love that they profess, where everything was two and everything was love and happiness, but it is the beginning of the true affection that you feel towards that person. It happens when you begin to think that love is not accompanied only by happiness and laughter, but also by certain commitments and moments of anger, also by arguments and bitter moments.
But that is what shows that it is good or not in a relationship. Everything has ups and downs, but knowing how to persist them is what keeps couples together. Do not fall to the first where they do not agree, but without falling into the toxic.
The whole love story begins with a "yes, yes I want to be your girlfriend". Mine has already started and so far it's not going so bad for me. I hope yours will continue on the right track.
