Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.
I learned that who doesn't look for you, doesn't miss you, doesn't care for you. That destiny determines who enters your life , but we get to decide who stays. That the truth hurts only once and a lie every time you remember it. That there are three things in life that leave and never return; words, time and opportunities. Therefore value whoever values you and don't treat as priority whoever treats you as an option.
It might take a year, it might take a day, but what's meant to be will always find a way.
Destiny isn't taken in by people trying to make what came first come afterwards.