We people will say every time the same thing When something bad happens, everyone tells you to forget about it. But. I don't think you can forget that easily. You may be able to pretend you've forgotten but I don't think anyone can completely forget.
When something bad happens, you have three choices.
You can Either let it DEFINE you,
DESTROY you, or you can be strong and
Let it STRENGTHEN you.
Sometimes the best thing you can do is not think, not wonder, not imagine, not obsess. Just breathe, and have faith that everything will work out for the best.
I've learned that if one is arrogant and if something bad happens to him, people won't want him to succeed. They will make more of an effort to bring us down.
I think I'm afraid to be happy because whenever I do get too happy, something bad happens always.