Anger, acceptance, and grief are normal when we are denied by others, but whatever it is do not hold a grudge against him, even though his treatment is very bad to you.
Take control of your heart not to hold a grudge, let alone make it deep in your heart. Do not! because if the grudge is left to linger in the heart, it will erode your happiness.
So remember, no matter what attitude and behavior other people have toward you, do not you reply to the same thing, so you are not as bad as him.
Simply wise your heart with patience, do not focus on how bad the treatment is, but focus on God's reward, continuing to hope for the best of Him.
The point is not to take your lust to reply with the same thing, it will only make your life miserable, because every moment you know will only hate and hate.
So turn your anger, do not let him invite you to hate and grudge, because these two heart diseases if left unchecked then you will be hard to feel calm living your life.
Believe that after you have made your effort to be patient, then surely Allah will give you much good.
And of course anyone would want to reciprocate and teach a lesson to him who has hurt, but whatever flavor you should never be interested to apply the same thing, because really God will not like to see you so.
Then when Allah dislikes, then do not expect God will often give his wives to you, while the wisdom that will make you peace and happiness live your life.
For that ye shall remain steadfast, ye be patient, and ye shall remain in sincerity sufficient.
In order that Allah always holds you with His mercy, so the happiness of God always grants to you cheaply.