Most of the students we see among the students come in a lot of career-related mental distress. Passed, looking for a job - their numbers are not low. What is the key to carrier, what will happen, how will it happen, why not being, etc. is mainly the main concern. What is the goal of their career to come out of conversation with them? What is the goal of life?
'Choosing a goal and sticking to it changes everything.'-Scott Reed
Listen to Shamim's end in honors in sociology.
- "My target is government jobs. Two BCS trials in front If not, I'll test the banks. ... Well, there is no tuition fee in Europe. I wonder if a master can be made from Finland or Sweden. I have a friend in Finland. "
- "Your words seem like you have a lot of tendencies."
- "Yes, I did basic courses of photography to stay in second year. Then I was thinking about taking pictures. In the third year, however, I did a short language course in German. Now do not remember anything. "
- "Hmm, now where's the problem?"
- "No, that's pressure from home, I have to earn. At least we can manage our own expenses. Meanwhile, since my girlfriend is a very agile, she is under tremendous pressure from her home to marriage. He gives me something, hurry up, do something. What do I say? Still not the master's final. What are some of the overnight, you say? "
- "Hmmm, overnight is not too much. What do you want? "
- "I can not understand that."
The thoughts of the kingdom are on her forehead. There are many reasons for Shamim's current problems. At this moment, his confidence, morale lies in the queue. Can not see anything in the future. It is basically one of the main components of anxiety.
Why do not we see clearly what will happen in front of you?
The answer is very simple. Because we do not try to see clearly. Clearly, when I decide, what I want to see. What is my goal? Career goals, goals of life, economic goals The goal will be as transparent, the less the fear will be. It's easy to achieve if you can set a clear goal like a glass. It increases morale, enthusiasm for work and enthusiasm. We know 'transparency power.' From the darkness, there is doubt, fear, anxiety, is not it?
Take care of Shamim's career goals. What is his goal?
'Government jobs ... BCS ... bank ... higher education abroad ... photography ... German language learning ....'
There are some specific and important steps to define a clear goal. See if you have followed these as your target?
Step one: Fix the goal of life
Yes, now what will be the goal of your life? Want to see yourself as? Where do you want to see? This is the image of your life on a big canvas. Twenty, thirty, forty years you want to be Your goal is to decide what you need to do now. How to move forward. Long-term goals will influence every work you do. Encourage, keep up the spirits.
Many people decide to divide long-term life-goals into different classes. For example,
Career goals:
Which way do you want to reach? Example-ami want to be governor of Bangladesh Bank, want to be president of BGMEA, the politicians want to be, want to be the editor of a national newspaper, the National Award winning filmmaker want to be, want to be a professor. "
Economic goals:
What will be your financial status? What is your career-goals relationship with?
The aim of learning:
How much education you want to achieve? Is it compatible with your career and economic goals?
Goals about family life or family:
How do you want a family life? Having a married or unmarried, without a child or a child, how many children, a joint family, or a small family will be included in the family goals.
Objectives of body, health and mind:
In particular, with sports and career goals, their body has to set a specific goal for health. However, this is also a very important goal for everyone else.
To determine the goals of different aspects of life, deep self-analysis should be done. Considering the needs of their own needs, dreams, qualifications, resources, and circumstances, they will have to dissect the hairs of the targets.
However, it is important to focus your mind on the goal. Family, parents, what society is asking for, it is more than thousand times more important to appreciate what you are hearing. Because life is yours Today you will have to decide which one you decide today. Whatever is good or bad, you will have to bear the consequences of it 100 percent. Others will not be so impressed.
