Being in a relationship had taught me so much in my life and slowly I'm starting to learn that perhaps "fights" play an important role too.
There are often not even to be taken personal, but they seem to be a catalyst to create friction, tension, attraction.
It's one thing to live in harmony. But having it all the time - often seems to take the "juice" out of any relationship.
Especially sexual attraction can't exist when there are not two "opposites". Or, I'm asking myself; what's the point of a sexual, deep communion, when you are already in the bubble of "oneness"?
Maybe relationships are not only simply about harmony and about being "one" with each other but about the "dance" of getting together - and creating again a contrast.
This play is exciting. Maybe one day it won't anymore and I'll be joining Eckhart Tolle.
Yet to me there's something fascinating about that "dance".
For the dance to flow, arguments and small fights are not "relationship killers" but can be saviors. They are often not even to be taken personal - the reasons are invented. Not because you don't love each other, but the sense of insecurity can be so irresistibly attractive.
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