Hey Steemians.... Selamat siang and Happy Holiday.
Steemians,....
Be careful about choosing a life partner, because sometimes the person's true nature appears when it is together, more precisely when the qabul permission has been spoken with the sacred.
So make sure when you have good intentions to marry a woman, or if you a woman agrees to accept a male proposal, it should be real before the wedding you find out who she really is.
What for? So that you do not fall into deep disappointment, when you later know that he is not what you expected.
That is, if at the beginning you knew what was lacking, but you still accepted it, then make sure you will be fine together forever.
You must remember, that the regret did not come at the beginning of the meeting, but at the end of the meeting. That's why you have to be careful in determining the potential companion of your life.
Do not let your life become colorless because it is filled with deep regret, because marriage is not only for two days or 2 weeks, but for a lifetime.
So don't be fooled by what only appears before your eyes, because what is seen by the eyes is sometimes not as beautiful as reality.
Especially nowadays, there are various ways to make the physical more beautiful or more attractive.
Examine well and correctly according to the path that God gives if you are really interested in Him.
Do not let you just do it when you see it, because not a few of us who claim to be very sorry for being deceived by the external circumstances alone.
And what you have to remember again is that the marriage is very long in duration, you can say until death separates, not only when you are bored then you can just let go of it.
do not let when you know all the shortcomings, then you arbitrarily search for others, because after all and whatever regret your decision first, he remains your legal responsibility.
In essence, before you decide to really have it in a legitimate way, then you must consider it properly and correctly.
Your good intentions are not only based on one look at once, but it would be better if you knew him first through the people around him, so that when you were together you never felt sorry for choosing him.
Thanks and have a nice Holiday.