Nice, very nice.

People always tend to be someone else, approved by society. And get lost in the way. Pleasing others and not pleasing yourself first is the biggest mistake in life.
You have to take care of yourself first, because that is the only way you can help others, by being healthy and focused and happy. And doing it your way.

Motivating yourself is a big deal. Who do you see in the mirror when you get up in the morning. Do you see that person. Does it disgust you. Can you stand that person in the mirror or does in anoy you. Tell that person what you feel and than tell him what that person deserves to hear. That it is a wonderfull human being and that it can do whatever it wants.
Love yourself so you can love others.

Paolo Coelho wrote something about it in his book Veronica decide to die (Veronika je odlučila umrijeti).