Greetings guys hope you all had a great day at work today. Today want to share a very delicate issue that we sweep under the carpet and its eating up destinies daily.. Its pornography and masturbation. These twin killers are responsible for so many destinies destroyed as a result of lost of interest to pursue dreams and loss of emotions in relationships becuase of porn addiction.
WHAT IS PORNOGRAPHY
Pornography is The explicit depiction of sexual subject matter; a display of material of an erotic nature. Pornography often ends or go along with masturbation as the victim most times get aroused due to the sexual acts or movies.. It is very common with young adults and with the recent study; 70% of people who watch porn daily are women.
It is estimated that the porn industry is one of the most thriving industry in the world today. One cannot be surprised becuase there is a saying that says "sex sells". The internet has help in a major way in the spread and promotion of pornography...
Now let's look at the story of brian a young man whose dream of becoming an engineer was almost cut short due to pornography.
PORN ADDICTION: A SURVIVAL STORY
My name is Brian; am from a small town in the north of England. I got into porn from when I was fifteen. On this faithful day, I bumped into a porn site when I was navigating through the internet. And got really excited with my expirence. The next day I visited the same site again and this time I spent almost the whole day watching porn. Soon it became an habit that I must do every single day.
My parents where the very busy type so I spent most of the time at home alone after school. When I turned sixteen it has eaten deep into my soul as I now watch porn everywhere I go. During some hangouts with my peers everyone talks about their crush and how they wanted to get laid as soon as possible. Mine was different because I have no girl to even crush on becuase I was gradually developing feelings for some specific porn stars. I even followed them on Facebook and Twitter and always interact with them when they posts pics always telling them how much I loved watching them. By now I was already masturbating and I do so watching only movies from these stars. I met a girl when I was eighteen and obviously liked her and she does too but the love I have for porn didn't made me have time for her and she gradually lost interest. Soon I was and I have never have anything to do with any girl and by now I masturbate at least five times daily.
Soon I became an alcoholic and result to porn most times to calm me down. I gained admission into high school and my parents where very worried cus my grades where very poor.. I hardly carry my books as I do so only in school.. I ways spend my break time in the rest rooms watching porn. I met this gorgeous girl Sarah in high school which was every guys dream but fortunately for me she has a thing for me. By now I was gradually getting tired of my guys talking about getting laid each passing day and I wanted to have a taste of how it feels. But when ever am with Sarah I lost my self confidence and don't actually know what to say to her.
She often visits me at home to help me with my studies.. She was a perfect combination of beauty and brains. 17 DEC 2010 was my birthday and she paid me a surprised visit on that faithful Friday and caught me red handed pants down masturbating.. some how I was too in a hurry to masturbate as I returned from the outing with sarah and never remembered to lock the door.. She never mentioned coming home as she already gave me a gift at our outing. She felt so sad.. And ran out of my house immediately in tears.
This was when I realised that this shit is taken evey single thing away from me becuase I was beginning to love Sarah and thinking that finally am gonna get laid. I felt very embarrassed. All through the weekend I could not reach her. She avoided all my calls and on Christmas day I went visiting, she first felt reluctantly agreed to talk to me.. Then I told her the story of my life and she introduced me to a counsellor. Her name was Fiona. Fiona was indeed a life saver as she took me through various sections on how to overcome the urge for pornography. She advised me to avoid been alone and gave me some books to read every week so I spent less time on the internet. With the help of Sarah I started improving in my grades as we always spent most times together studying. She also introduced me to a Church and this was where my breakthrough finally came. I got baptized by immersion and by the holy spirit with evidence of speaking in tongues. This was the best thing that have ever happened to me. Porn became very irritating.
I gained admission into the university to study as a petroleum engineer which has been my dream since i was a child. Sarah and I got married after my graduation and we have a son now Jason. To God be the Glory I am saved.
CONCLUSION
The effect of pornography in our society is becoming very alarming and mostly rampants with our young ones.. And with porn just a click away on the net. We cant help but take steps in protecting our kids.. Those who are already into it should see a counsellor or visit a bible believing church for proper councelling and deliverance.. Hope this would help to save a soul today..
Thanks so much for your time guys. Have a great day!!!