We cannot change the status quo immediately
The more dissatisfied a person is with the status quo, the greater the desire to get rid of the status quo. This desire will eventually make a person lose his way, because no one, in essence, can get rid of the status quo because the status of each moment is past. Or the result of some time, and the status quo of each moment is the future of a certain or some of the reasons. No one can escape the shackles of reality.
There is a unwitting trap that people tend to fall in is that dissatisfaction of the status and eager to revolutionize the status quo. (Even though, the eager may become the someone’s impulse to change). However, the best strategy for us is to accept the status quo, we should make best of ourselves, based on what we have.
Best Strategy:
Accepting the status quo: we should utilize all resources that we have and spare no efforts to do our best
NEVER succumb to self-pity: Attempting to touch and feel the bitter part of life will only lead people succumb to self-pity which is wasting enegry and time.
Find Pleasure: feeling happiness in our life is an ability no matter what circumstances that we are in
All the excellent people shares the common traits below:
- Seldom complain about their circumstances and past experience
- Not easy to be influenced by external voices, they follow their own ways.
- Love their daily work
- Have the ability to calm and concentrate on their works for a long time. (Time flows much faster if one choice to concentration on his/her work)
- Life flows in a virtuous circle.