UNREQUITED LOVE is defined as one-sided love. Love that you feel for someone, it is not felt in the same way by the other person. It's the feeling of being completely, hopelessly, desperately in love with someone, all the while knowing that your feelings will never reach them - these are the definitions found in dictionaries. In my own words, unrequited love is a feeling that a person feels unexpectedly and can't blame no one or anything. It's a feeling that blooms like a flower watered by emotions that comes from the heart. Love is the root cause of happiness but sometimes it is also the root cause of sorrow, sadness, depression, stress, and etc., that makes a person as a human. If one doesn't know how to handle love then it is also a cause of death of a loving heart. Every human being living in this chaotic world has the right to love and to be loved. Has a freedom to express the greatness of love. However, as a human being we should also understand and coped up with the consequences of love has to offer. Not all humans who fall in love is happy. "Sometimes, love is unrequited. You tend to like someone yet they don't like you back". Sometimes we love someone at the wrong time, he/ she has another love and it is not you. Yes, its hard to accept the truth but the only way to get rid of pain is acceptance. The main reason why humans experience the pain of one-sided love is that he/she can't accept the truth. Tries everything to make the person they love to love them back. Spend time, effort, the risk just to show the person they love that they are worth dying for. But if they will find out that, that person can't love them back, then that's the time they will feel the cruelty of love.
Dealing with such situation is like falling in the highest endless waterfalls that you couldn't imagine. You can get a lot of opinions or advice from different people in your circle. However, the problem is yourself. Sometimes you feel doubt on a certain advice because you don't believe in yourself. My point is that you should know how to trust and believe in yourself that you can make changes on how to overcome unrequited love. Deal with your personality and attitude. Look, I'm not a love doctor or whatsoever but what I'm saying here are all based on my experience and how I dealt with it. Not just curing yourself of an unrequited love but for your other problems too.
For most people who desperately fighting for what their heart is saying, they end up lost. They think that it's the end of the world already. What their missing is looking at the brighter side. Making impossible possible like instead of thinking negative about it, why not try to use it as inspiration and motivation to look forward to future. Make that person used to build your future not to destroy you as a person and your life. Because he or she doesn't love you-you'll be rebellious and ruin your life?. Oh, come on! That's really a crazy thing to do. The best thing that you should do is to be happy about it. At least you can say that "hey I'm human, I know how to love someone and how to love unconditionally even though I know to myself that he or she doesn't love me back ". It is a great sensational feeling. Believe me or not you will feel very thankful, satisfied, and find inner peace in you. That's what you call being positive and accept the truth. I'm not saying that it's easy. I know it's hard but in time you'll learn how to do it. You have to be systematic. It's a long step by step process. You have to incorporate and divert your attention to the things you love to do for you to overcome it. Focus on the things that make you happy not just focus on that person. That person will not be there for you to wipe the tears continuously flowing in your chicks. That person won't even know that you love him or her. So stop fantasizing about something that only happens in your dreams. Enjoy life and make the best out of it. Love comes naturally and you can also learn how to love someone that's worth dying for and learn from it to become a better person.
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