Last time i posted how this long distance relationship left me in pieces,,,,now i wounder instead of having long distance trade people are experiencing long distance love,,it so uncoming.
Women always take charge of the break up process unless the guy belongs to the group of the men who go to what they want. and only stay when they are getting what they want , it is only such guys who never get dumped by women . unfortunately majority of men get dumped on a daily basis because they are always far much more interested in the relationship than their partners.
when she decided to dump me, she did it her way and be in total control of the breakup process . she always wanted to do it without feeling so much guilt , while pretending not to have hurt me at all,
when dumping me she used created false hopes with such statements as.
- I think we belong to different worlds in our lives, so if you do not mind come and we talk.
I am now suffering from too much pressure to attend to you , too much work, my sick mother and my family activities and there is no room for a relationship now.
I am just not interested in our relationship now.
-I think we need to take some time off.
- Some thing has changed . i dont even know what it is .but it is me and not you who is who is the problem.
Once i heard such statements or variations, i did not question my self where i stand with her , just she was planning to off load me at the earliest convenience.But all in all , it is better that way because you will have saved yourself from some embarrassment by not meeting with a person who has lost it all for you...