Hello to the whole great community of Steemit.
I have decided to talk about this issue because I have had many bad people around me. And I realized the characteristics of these people. I want to share with you the different ways of identifying bad friends.
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THOSE INTERESTED
An interested person is the one who is with you only for the valuables you have, the things you can do or get. He is only with you to lend you things or to be able to approach another person.
You'll notice that a "friend" is an interested person when you do things for him and he doesn't do anything for you, or if you lend him something and he never gives it back to you, or if he does, he moves away from you until you need it again.
THE ENVIOUS
Those who believe more than you are bad friends. The envious are those who if you tell him something good that happened to you look for something much better than them step to make you feel bad or less than them, believing him better than all.
These kinds of people don't care about you, don't mind how you are or how you feel; they only care about themselves by making them see everyone that they are more important than you.
Among the phrases that will come out of his mouth are: "I did this yesterday...", "I pass this...", "I spend something similar but much better...", among other things.
THE VICTIMS WHO NEVER HAVE
They are those who always look for you when they have a problem or want to vent with you to give you advice and words of encouragement, and want you to listen more than two hours and motivates. But, when you need them they are never for you, they always become the victim and never have time, and when they have time they listen to you only for 10 minutes and they say meaningless words to get out of the way and not listen to you anymore.
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THE FALSE
A false person is the one who is double-faced, how is that? I mean, in front of you they're the best friends, but when he's with someone else he talks bad about you or does something against you. He despises you when he's with another. This type of "friend" once you fail it makes you do two or more times even if they promise you will not.
THE MANIPULATORS
They always get you to do things you don't want, use strategies or manipulate you saying "if you don't do this I'll tell that person you did that...” You always end up dominating and you believe the boss in everything.
If you have people around you who behave this way don't consider them your friends and stay away from them, they won't do you good. Choose better people who are always there for you and spend time that does not meet any of these characteristics. You know a person well before you consider her a friend.
And if you're reading this you have this kind of behavior is time to change, because you do not do good to anyone.
Hope you liked this post.
