I don't know if every woman has the same "problem", but when I want to change something in the room (for example to move the sofa in other place, to move some shelves, to change the color of the wall, etc) my hubby disappear.
I know, I love to change something in the room (usually in my kitchen/living room) and I try to do it many time during the year. We have many many books (about 2000) and to move them is really an hard work, so I can understand Paolo. Every time, he said me "Wait! We can't do it immediatly! We need to plan how and when we can do it. Keep calm."
He knows me and knows that when I have an idea I have to do it immediatly, but the marriage is a permanent compromise, so we always found a way to solve our different needed ^_^
Yes, few days ago we changed something in the kitchen/living room moving many heavy books, but I didn't change the colors of wall ^_^
Now I just discovered another solution that can help me: an online source to create a new (virtual) room!!! I can change everything, from the sofa to the color of the floor! Fantastic!
If you need it, you can see here: https://www.homestyler.com/ (you can see the rooms that you create in 3D too!)
Night nightÂ
Silvia